CONFIDENT IN YOUR LIFE.
SELF-AWARE AF.
So why is it so hard to trust yourself when you really like him?
A 6-week coaching experience for ambitious, self-aware women who want to find incredible love without losing themselves in the process. Because knowing who you are when you're single is one thing. Being able to stay her when you're falling madly in love is another.
Starts September 22 | 6 weeks | Founding members save $1,650
Real Women. Real Shifts.
"She believed in me when I'd forgotten how. Mon was able to meet me where I was at, she held my hand when I stumbled and celebrated with me as I learned to fly."
"This woman will change your life. She was and continues to be an inspiration for me, when it comes to owning what you want, being at peace with who you are, and creating profound and lasting relationships. When I worked with her, I learned to love the skin I was in to the deepest level."
"Working with Monique has been the sole greatest tool I needed to transform my life through one of the most tumultuous periods I've experienced in recent years. Monique's presence and energy is a gift that is continually refueling and redirecting you to see the pathway forward by tuning into your own innate strength, wisdom and clarity."
"Monique taught me how to set boundaries, stop people-pleasing, and ask for the promotion I deserved. But more than that, she showed me that I have the power to shape my own life."
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YOU KNOW YOURSELF REALLLLLLY WELL…
UNTIL YOU REALLLY LIKE HIM.
You've done the therapy. Read the books. Listened to the podcasts.
You know your patterns. You know what a red flag is. You know what your standards are. And you give excellent dating advice — when it's someone else's relationship.
But knowing yourself intellectually and being able to back yourself when your heart is involved?
Two very different things.
You Stop Trusting Yourself
You can make six-figure decisions at work without polling seven people. Then you really like a man and suddenly: "Should I text him?" "Am I asking too much?" "Is this a red flag?" You don't need another person to give you the answer. You need to trust yourself enough to hear your own.
You Know Better, But Don't Always Do Better
You can explain your attachment style. You can probably explain his too. But self-awareness at brunch on Sunday is very different from self-awareness when the man you really like has just triggered the shit out of you. Understanding the pattern isn't the finish line. Choosing differently while you're in it is.
You Want Deep Love Without Losing Yourself
You don't want to become colder. You don't want to need nobody. And you definitely don't want to learn how to manipulate someone into choosing you. You want to love someone — deeply, madly, openly — without slowly disappearing from your own life in the process.
YOU COULD PROBABLY FIND "SOMEONE."
THAT ISN'T THE GOAL.
You want the husband.
The best friend.
The ridiculous chemistry.
The healthy relationship.
The person you genuinely want to build your life with.
And you want to be able to experience all of that without becoming smaller, quieter, more anxious, or less you to keep it.
You want high standards for him. And high standards for how you show up in love.
Open.
Honest.
Grounded.
Able to communicate.
Able to walk away when something isn't right.
And able to stay open when something is right — without fear convincing you to run.
That's the woman we're building.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
MORE INFORMATION WON'T CHANGE SOMETHING YOU NEVER PRACTISE CHANGING.
You Keep Repeating What You Already Understand
Different man. Same pattern. More information won't change something you never practise changing.
Fear Keeps Making Decisions For You
You tolerate something you know isn't right because you don't want to lose him. Or you leave something potentially great because vulnerability feels unsafe. Different behaviour. Same problem. You stopped backing yourself.
You Lose Time
If finding your person genuinely matters to you, this isn't something you want to keep "working on eventually." Not because you're running out of time. Because your life is happening now — and you deserve to actually participate in creating the relationship you say you want.
YOU DON'T NEED MORE DATING ADVICE.
You need to become unshakeable.
This is a 6-week coaching experience designed to close the gap between the self-aware woman you already are, and the woman you actually become when your emotions are activated.
This isn't about controlling men. Finding the perfect text. Memorising red flags. Playing hard to get. Or becoming so independent that nobody can hurt you.
We work on the part you can control: you. What you communicate. What you tolerate. What you choose. What you make excuses for. How you respond when you're triggered. And whether you still listen to yourself when there's something at stake.
We Focus On You, Not Him
Most dating advice teaches you to decode a man like he's a cryptic crossword. This program teaches you to regulate your own emotions and lead yourself — revolutionary, we know.
Not Tactics. Not Red Flags.
This isn't about finding the right man, mastering "the rules," or building a red-flag spreadsheet. It's about becoming the woman who stops abandoning herself to keep someone else comfortable.
Real-Time Coaching
One live coaching call a week means real situations get real support — not generic advice, but tools you use and feel shift as they land.
The Identity Reset Method™
We combine identity work, emotional regulation, and nervous system tools — because self-trust in dating is built in the body, not from re-reading a text thread for the 40th time.
The 30-Day Activation Guarantee
Show up fully for 30 days — attend the calls, do the work, put the phone down instead of drafting your fourth response option. If you don't feel a real shift in how you think, communicate, and show up while dating, you can leave. No questions asked.
Knowing
- See your dating patterns without judgment or shame
- Build emotional awareness as it happens, not after the spiral
- Foundational shifts that interrupt the overanalysing loop
- Self-paced modules to build your foundation from week one
Practising
- Work through your core patterns with live support
- Regulate your nervous system instead of outsourcing calm
- Stop reacting from fear of losing the connection
- Turn a mixed signal into information, not a spiral
Becoming
- Build self-trust through consistent proof, not motivation
- Communicate directly instead of hinting and hoping
- Know when to stay and when to walk away — and trust it
- Date from self-respect, not self-protection
THIS IS FOR YOU IF…
This Is For You If…
- You're already self-aware but know there's a gap between knowing and doing
- You want an incredible relationship, not just "a man"
- You want to trust yourself even when you're falling hard
- You're willing to look at your own patterns instead of making every dating problem someone else's fault
- You want to stay open to love without abandoning yourself
- You're willing to be coached, practise, and actually do something differently
This Isn't For You If…
- You want a PhD in his red flags instead of a look at your own
- You want the group chat to agree with you, not the truth
- You want a script that guarantees he never pulls away
- You'd rather stay "right" than get real
- You think the problem is finding a better man, not becoming a steadier woman
HI, I'M MONIQUE.
I've been successful in love for 10 years now. But before that? It was a bit of a tragedy.
I lost my first love and had my heart broken wide open — he genuinely disappeared for months. From there I became the non-committal "I don't date" girl. Then the chameleon in my 20s, the easygoing girl, the party girl chasing attention because it was easier than being seen. Until I realised what I actually wanted was love.
I help you skip all of that. Skip the years of becoming whoever you think someone wants, skip the performing, skip the chasing. What actually works in love is being yourself and being honest — which isn't always fun, but it's the approach that works.
I'm not someone who cracked the code on men. I learned how to stop abandoning myself. That's the shift I teach — because that's the one that actually changes everything else.
"I didn't figure this out from ChatGPT (we didn't have that then!) or from asking my best friend or my mum what they thought. It came from applying the very principles I teach in Unshakeable — so I can hand you the shortcut."
READY TO BECOME UNSHAKEABLE IN LOVE?
This is the first 6-week Dating Edition of Unshakeable. You're getting founding-member access before this becomes the full-price version of the program.
Future Price $2,500
Join for $850 →
Want to join but need a payment option?
A 10-week payment plan is available by call.
What's Included
- Monday VM Activation to anchor your focus for the week
- Self-Paced Modules — one weekly teaching (10–20 mins) to prep for our coaching calls
- One clear action to practise between sessions
- 1 × live coaching call per week
- Ongoing support inside the community
- Daily access to Monique in the group chat
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS.
Because knowing isn't the same as doing. This isn't more insight — it's live coaching that catches you in the moment you're triggered, not after, so you actually practise choosing differently while it's happening.
No. This works whether you're dating, talking to someone, or completely single — because the work is on you, not on a specific relationship.
Even better. You'll build the self-trust and identity work now, so when someone does show up, you're not starting from scratch under pressure.
Perfect timing. You'll have real, live material to bring straight into coaching instead of theorising about a hypothetical situation.
A 10–20 minute teaching, one live coaching call, and one clear action to practise. Built to fit around a full life, not take it over.
You'll still have the weekly teaching, your action step, and daily access to me in the group chat — so you're never without support for the week.
Because this is the first-ever 6-week Dating Edition. Founding members get in before it becomes the full-price version — $850 instead of the future $2,500.
Yes — book a call to have a quick chat to set up a payment plan.
Show up fully for 30 days — attend the calls, do the work. If you don't feel a real shift in how you think, communicate, and show up while dating, you can leave. No questions asked.
September 22nd — 6 weeks, Founding Round pricing.
YOU DON'T NEED TO BECOME BETTER AT DATING.
You need to get better at not leaving yourself when love gets real.
I want you to find the man. I want the chemistry. I want the ridiculous love story. I want you to have the relationship that makes you think: "Thank god I waited for this."
But more than that? I want you to recognise yourself inside it. To still have your voice. Your standards. Your friendships. Your life. Your ability to say what you mean and trust what you know.
Because the goal was never to become so unshakeable that nothing affects you. The goal is to be able to love someone deeply without losing your grip on you.
If you're ready to practise becoming that woman, I want you in the Founding Round.
Join Unshakeable — $850Starts September 22 | 6 weeks | Founding pricing